About me

Hello! I am Bonnie Ray and welcome to my website. It brings me immense joy to know that you’re seeking guidance on the path to loving your beautiful self. I am continually striving to better myself and uncover the untruths imposed by society, teachers, parents, or religious groups about who we should be and the roles we should play. It took me many years and countless life’s lessons to become the person I am today.

My mother married five times. She had deeply ingrained co-dependency issues and lacked personal boundaries, creating an environment of constant fear and anxiety for me. As a child, I didn’t know which grown-up I could trust. My mother was focused on her relationships, not her children. Many times, I felt like I was an afterthought. There were more than a few times she forgot to pick me up from school.

This relationship with my mother formed the basis of how I showed up in my adult life causing unnecessary heartache and further trauma, some of which culminated in the loss of my daughter to suicide. That event was a wake up call for me. The lessons I’ve learned emphasize that we are not our stories; there is a better way to live. The life we are meant to live is free from the lies we have all been led to believe. The journey to this realization is one of compassion, love, and curiosity toward oneself.

My experiences, along with the profound lessons my daughter taught me through her passing, have ignited an immense desire to share what I’ve learned and to help others lead a life filled with loving relationships and meaning. Self-transformation is a highly rewarding path, and I would be honoured to help you take those first steps or to guide you if you find yourself at a fork in the road.
Contact me today and let’s discuss how I can help you live your best life.